Many of us have been raised to believe it’s better to give than receive. In order to allow joy fully in our lives we must allow ourselves to receive, but so many of us have difficulty with this. You might be thinking, “hmmpf that’s not me, I’d be happy to receive, is Oprah around the corner handing out cars?” Before I explain further, tell me if any variation of these statements sound familiar to you: Someone compliments your outfit or perhaps your smile. You say, “this ol