- Lisa Coleman | Choose Joy Now Network
Are you Invisible?
During the latest Choose Joy Now Network event [Fashionable, Fabulous and Fierce]. I had a few revelations. The stylist suggested to always add one piece to our outfit that will add interest, otherwise you’ll blend in with everyone else. This was a huge “ah ha” for me. I realized prior to beginning my Choose Joy Now journey, most often my goal was to blend in and not be seen or noticed. If I was unsure of the dress code for an event, I would choose to underdress rather than overdress. I was often too concerned how others might judge me, so I believed if I blended in I would decrease that risk because, I would “not be seen”. If you have been following the blog you know I have also been purging my closet and focusing on wearing clothes I really like instead of focusing on quantity. I have been paying more attention to what “I” like and what brings me joy instead of what is “safe”. I once heard the late Wayne Dyer say, “What others think of me is none of my business”. Yes it’s easier said than done, but practicing it has definitely brought more joy to my life. Are you focusing on the opinions of others or wearing the clothes that bring you joy? #dowhatmakesyouhappy